I've been playing on the server since November 2011 (under a different name back then). I have a peaceful play style, never initiating a PVP encounter, and providing food and resources when meeting new players.
My most embarrassing moment in HCSMP was accidentally throwing a splash speed potion while watching an arena match. It hit the players who were fighting under strict no-potion rules. I didn't sign on for days after that!
I'm a member of the Alliance, since there didn't seem to be any downsides to joining as a peaceful player.
If you need nether warts, blaze rods, or other rare items, /msg me when I'm on (usually on weekends).